I’m a 24 yo religious Congolese woman, engineer, doing work during the a great FAANG (very I’m while making a relatively good money) and you can residing in European countries
I’ve never been the newest pretty girl once i is actually young but I had an enormous sparkle right up within the last years and went in the ugly you to definitely benefiting from the fresh new fairly advantage.
We naturally features my flaws but i have come implementing them for a long period and you will complete pay attention to regarding my family which i has actually a type center and i also have always been thinking alert and you will good communicator.
I don’t know if this songs pompous, which is really not the target,I am saying all of this so you can contextualise my personal state (English is not my personal very first words)
Expanding right up I was right up in an exceedingly white ecosystem and therefore led to internalised mind-hate. I have already been unlearning that it for years today. I’m completely the opposite now: I’m a great 100% pro-black colored and i«refuse» up until now outside of my personal ethnicity. I do has actually high conditions, but my personal requirements you should never happened to be anything I really don’t meet me personally and you will is mainly according to thinking, reputation and you will levels of ambition.
not, I can not appear to come across black colored men in the “my personal top”, and that i honestly should not accept. There is always a basic trouble with the fresh new men We satisfy: -accomplished, kind, glamorous not Religious otherwise low-doing Religious (my trust is essential for me)
But most of time the male is only discouraged by the my achievements at the a young age. I don’t notice relationship someone who brings in lower than myself but I’m in that way constantly have me personally being required to make me bedste cubanske datingwebsteder personally quick.